Pretty much everyone has heard of scissoring with regards to lesbian sex, but there’s probably a lot you don’t know. Also known as tribbing, this is something that the average lesbian is a big fan of. We will take an in-depth look at this mysterious practice so you can learn all about it.

What is Tribbing?

Tribbing or scissoring is a sexual act where two women positioning themselves with their legs spread open against each other with their vaginas touching. The women rub their vulvas together, which produces an extremely pleasurable feeling. Sometimes hands are involved, but not always. It all depends on the preferences of the women engaging in this act.

Another form of tribbing is when a woman will hump the leg of her partner. There are a few variations, but the goal of this act is external vaginal stimulation. It can include internal stimulation if hands are used in the form of fingering though.

Is Tribbing the Same Thing as Scissoring?

Tribbing is a more general term that covers any sexual position where at least one partner is rubbing their vulva against the other. As we will discuss later on in this article, there are positions other than scissoring to explore.

To put in the simplest possible terms, scissoring is a specific position, whereas tribbing is any act that involves external stimulation of the vulva.

Trimming is Fairly Popular

While it might not seem like it, scissoring is actually fairly common among lesbian couples. Some lesbian women might not go around advertising the fact that they engage in this act, but it is definitely a thing. In fact, it has been a very popular means of sexual gratification among lesbians for many years now.

Some Women Aren’t a Fan of it

Just like withy any sexual position, some lesbians aren’t a big fan of tribbing. There are definitely women who are really into it, but some don’t do it at all. In the end it all comes down to a matter of personal preference. Women who don’t do this give a multitude of reasons, all of which are perfectly understandable.

It’s not as Easy as it Looks

It might not seem like scissoring takes much effort, but it can be very physically exhausting for both people involved. This sex act requires constant back and forth movement in a somewhat awkward position. Depending on how intense the session is, it can be quite a workout. This is one of the main reasons that some lesbians don’t do this with their partners on a regular basis.

Some Partners Aren’t Compatible for Tribbing

The fact is that some partners just aren’t physically compatible when it comes to scissoring. This position requires a good amount of flexibility, which can definitely be a problem. It definitely pays to be skinny when it comes to tribbing. The amount of endurance that this requires also demands a fit body, which is something to consider.

With lesbian couples that are both overweight, doing this can be problematic to say the least. It is not something that just any woman can do. Those who are dedicated enough might be able to make it work, but this is not always the case.

The Real Reason that Scissoring is so Popular

The porn industry is certainly one of the major reasons that scissoring has become so popular among lesbian couples. It has been featured in adult films for a long time now, and it caught on pretty quickly. A lot of people think that women don’t watch porn, but the truth is that many of them enjoy it quite a bit.

When you take a look at how much pleasure porn actresses seem to experience when scissoring, it’s not hard to believe that many lesbians would try it out themselves. In fact, this is the case with a lot of sex acts and positions in general. Porn has been responsible for pioneering quite a few sexual innovations over the years.

There are Plenty of Tribbing Options

You’ll find that there are actually quite a few different tribbing options that don’t involve the scissoring position. If you are looking for a less physically demanding alternative, you might want to try leg humping. A lot of lesbians enjoy doing this, and it’s pretty easy overall. It involves one woman humping her partner’s leg, as far up as possible. It can be very physically satisfying to say the least.

Another great alternative to scissoring is the missionary position. While this might not be the most exciting or exotic option, it is easy to do for pretty much everyone. You will also be able to look each other in the eyes, which enhances the intimacy of the act itself.

You can also get on top of your partner and grind your vulva against their stomach. This is another easy position that doesn’t require either partner to be fit or in shape at all.

Does Scissoring Reduce Your Risk of STDs?

It is a myth that scissoring is a “safer” alternative to other sex acts. The truth is that there is still a chance of contracting a sexually transmitted disease when doing this. Any sexual act that involves the exchange of bodily fluids inherently comes with this risk. Penetration is not required to get an STD, so it is important that you use adequate protection while doing this.

Final Thoughts

Tribbing can be incredibly pleasurable for both partners, and there are many different ways to do it. It is important to explore some of these options so you increase the likelihood of everyone having a good time. This is something that many lesbian women enjoy doing, but not all. It has definitely caught on over the years, mostly because of adult films. With the proliferation of online porn sites, it is no wonder that so many lesbians are doing it. It is, however, important to use protection and be safe just as you would for any other type of sex act.

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