Dildos come in all sizes and shapes. If harder stimulation is your thing, it’s best to go for a steel, glass, or wooden dildo. While uncommon, wooden dildos do exist, and they’re very safe to use. Vibrating dildos are the go-to option for an extra sensation. Finally, a rabbit style toy is suitable for clitoral stimulation.

Before You get Started
You could stimulate yourself manually before you start playing with your dildo. Don’t try to insert it without natural lubrication. Then, you’re ready to try some techniques.

Short and Rapid Strokes
Bigger doesn’t have to be better because your G-spot and other nerve endings are in the first third of your vagina. Quick, short strokes will do the trick. There’s no need to ram your dildo into the cervix! Also, your hands won’t get as tired.

If you prefer a larger size, you can insert eight or more inches, but you don’t have to. If you want to feel an extension, fat and large dildos are for you. You can use the additional length to get a better hold on it.

Move It Back and Forth at an Angle
The tip of the dildo applies pressure to the posterior wall (the bottom) of the vagina when you move it at an angle. It should be pointing toward the bed if you are lying on your back. Apart from a thrusting sensation, there is extra stimulation around the opening and the clitoris. This technique is best for flexible toys.

Textured for Thrusts
Thrusts along the full length of your vagina are wondrously pleasurable, particularly with a textured toy. This technique requires a firm toy, although not necessarily rigid. It is difficult to master with a soft and flexible one. Go for a curved or smooth dildo for extra comfort if you’re new to this. A toy with bumps or ridges might feel excessive.

Hitting the Spot
The G-spot is located about 2.5 inches on the anterior wall of the vagina. This is the side that’s nearest to the abdomen. In case you don’t know where it is, it feels a bit different from the rest of the vagina – slightly softer, a bit like the palate, a bit dimpled. Slide your palm down to find it. Your palm should be touching your stomach. Slide one or two (or three) fingers in. Once they’re in about 2.5 inches, curl them back. Your fingertips should be hitting the spot.

For extra stimulation to this area using a dildo, push it against the anterior wall as you slide it in and move the top part across the spot when you pull it out. If you use a metal or glass toy, the stimulation will be intense. Some toys are made with a curve specifically to touch the G spot.

A ‘juicing’ dildo has cranks and is rotated when inserted. You don’t need a special dildo to practice the rotation technique. Any dildo will work unless it has a sharp angle somewhere.

Filling Sensation
You can enjoy your dildo without any motion! It can be stimulating as it stays in place. Just find one that feels good when inside. Just leave it there as you finger the clit to orgasm.

Tips on Using an Anal Dildo
If you want to use an anal dildo, you must get lube to go with it. As with a vaginal dildo, it must be cleaned thoroughly before and after use. Your vaginal dildo can double as an anal one as long as it has a flared base. Try a thrusting or an angled dildo. Some of them come with harnesses.

When it comes to anal play, you have a few options available. Butt plugs are inserted and stay inside while you masturbate or have sex. Typically, juicing dildos are made of glass and also have a flared base. Instead of thrusting, you turn them.

You can try anal beads if you’re new to anal play. Many people who were learning to masturbate anally have found them useful. Get anal beads made of silicone for maximum hygiene. Insert and pull out one bead at a time at the beginning.

Finally, you can try an anal vibrator. These also come in all kinds of shapes and sizes. A lot of them look like G-spot dildos and are shaped like the letter C. You can hold the toy in place or thrust it as long as you get the right shape. Some toys have a few extensions or prongs, which you can use for vaginal stimulation and stimulation to the perineum at the same time. The perineum is a sensitive area between the vagina and anus.

Experiment with Temperature
Your steel or glass dildo might feel uncomfortably cold when inserted if you’ve been keeping it in a cool place. Before you use it, warm it up. Temperature experiments are simply where you change the temperature of a toy. You could insert a large dildo after warming it up and touch your nipples with a cold object at the same time.

How to Enjoy Double Penetration
If you want to try double penetration, there are several ways to do it. You could insert an anal and a vaginal dildo and use them together. You can use a dildo and a butt plug or anal beads or a dildo and your fingers. Finally, a partner can penetrate you from the front or back as you use a dildo in the other orifice.

Most Pleasurable Positions for Dildo Play
Basically, there are four positions you can try: prone, supine, sideways, and riding. The most common one is where you lie on your back. To change up the angle for extra stimulation to the G-spot, pull your knees to your chest. For easier access, put a pillow under the butt or hips.

You can lie on your side. Pressing your legs together will make the dildo feel bigger. To vary this position, bend your knees or keep your legs straight.

For an unusual position, stick a suction cup dildo to the table and ride it. This leaves the hands free to stimulate the clit.