Believe it or not the blow job has been popular ever since the Kama Sutra first featured it back in the 2nd century. They offer way more benefits than most people even understand. Statistics show that giving a blow job to your partner can increase relationship satisfaction and lead to increased intimacy. Despite the popularity of the blow job, many people are mediocre at doling them out without even knowing it. Whether you’re new to blowjobs or simply want to up your technique, we’ve got a few key ways to leave your man aching for more. Need to know how to give the best blow job ever? Follow this guide and your man will never leave the bedroom dissatisfied.

Start By Getting Comfortable

Before you get to work, make sure you and your partner are comfortable. It only takes the average dude around four minutes to achieve orgasm. The goal is to gratify your partner for far longer than that. Part of this means finding a position where you’re not fidgeting or shifting about too often. If you plan on using your hands at all, rest them on his thighs. If you have weak or delicate knees, opt for a blow job on the bed.

Of course, before you settle in, discover what your partner wants. Is he into dominance? If so, you may want to take a position in which your guy can look down on you (such as on your knees). Is your partner more submissive? You may want to position yourself over top of him as he lies on the bed. Whatever is both sexy and comfortable.

One more thing to consider is the angle of his penis. If it hangs to the left, lean in that direction. Going with the curve will make your deep throating experience easier and more enjoyable.

Play the Big Tease

With a blow job, it can be tempting to dive right in, but that won’t result in the best blow job ever. A great blowjob should be seductive and exciting, which means a bit of foreplay and teasing is essential. Undress your man slowly and work down his body. As you work your way down to his penis, lick his inner thighs and sensitive areas before getting to the goods. Once you’ve teased, get a taste of his penis. Then give his balls a little squeeze. Hug the shaft of his penis with your mouth and shove it in as deep as you can. This will get the salvia flowing so you can start working your magic.

Go ahead and wrap your lips around his penis like it is a juicy popsicle. Take one long stroke right from the base to the tip. Get into a rhythm and use your hand to help find a comfortable flow. Once you’ve gotten this far, start to test the waters and tease like there’s no tomorrow. Perhaps a light stroke of teeth will work? Make him moan and see what garners the best reaction.

Be Enthusiastic

Men enjoy a bit of enthusiasm. In fact, nothing is sexier than getting a great blow job from someone who seems to enjoy doing it. This is not a “fake it until you make it” situation. Lick the shaft from top to bottom and spend plenty of time sucking the tip of his penis. Don’t go too fast or he’ll think you just want to get it over with.

Slow and steady wins the race. Show some zeal with a hummer, which is moaning while his penis is in your mouth. This lets your partner know you’re into it and that you’re getting wet just from sucking him off. You’ll get extra sexy points if you grab a bit of your own wetness and use it as a lube. That’s guaranteed to get him going. As you’re giving him the best blow job ever, make direct eye contact with him and let him know that you love sucking his dick.

Practice Edging

One of the keys to giving the best blow job ever is teasing your partner into a mind-blowing orgasm through the art of edging. The idea is to bring your partner right to the brink of orgasm and then switch it up. For example, if you’re sucking and licking at the same time, switch it up and start kissing or licking the head of his penis instead. The simple change will bring him close and then push him back. The closer you bring a man to the cusp of orgasm, the more intense his orgasm will eventually be. You’ll know by his moans and body language when he’s getting close.

Get A Bit Handsy

Finally, the art of giving the best blow job ever involves getting a bit handsy. There is more to a great blowjob than simply sucking his dick and going to town. You’ll need to use your hands to get the full extent of the job. Before you even get started, start out with a light hand job to get him nice and rect. You can even add some flavored lube on your hands for a bit of zest. Once you’re full on giving a blow job, use your palms to keep things interesting. If you’re not into deep throating, use your hands to cover the base of your guy’s dick.

This ensures that your tongue is showing adequate love to the most sensitive part of the penis (the frenulum) while your hand moves steadily up and down the shaft. Integrate a steady combination of mouth and hand stimulation as you stroke while sucking or licking. You can also use your hands to play with sensitive spots such as the balls, the inner thigh, or the nipples. If you don’t want to play with his parts, you can also play with your own. Rub your clit or play with your breasts. You can also grab his hand and lead him to your own pleasure points depending on your position.

Finish with a Bang

Before your man orgasms, kick things up a notch or two. Feel free to experiment with more than one technique. As you go along, speed up your rhythm or do something surprising that’s sure to make him crazy. Before climax, give his balls a nice gentle tug. When he orgasms, keep going but slow your rhythm and loosen your grip. Keep going for a second or two beyond that and then stop.

If you want to swallow the cum, keep sucking and licking as the cum shoots into the back of your throat. Once he’s done, lick the head of his dick lightly a few more times as you look up and smile. If you don’t want to swallow, don’t feel pressured to do so.

Simply pull his penis from your mouth and let the cum flow over your hand. You can also let him cum on your chest, stomach, butt or any other asset you choose. Just be vocal beforehand about what you both want.